{"id":2190,"date":"2012-11-08T09:36:06","date_gmt":"2012-11-08T09:36:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/pcdcr.org\/?p=2190"},"modified":"2016-03-03T08:24:37","modified_gmt":"2016-03-03T08:24:37","slug":"%d8%b7%d9%81%d9%84%d9%8a-%d9%85%d8%af%d9%84%d9%84","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/pcdcr.org\/en\/%d8%b7%d9%81%d9%84%d9%8a-%d9%85%d8%af%d9%84%d9%84\/","title":{"rendered":"My child is spoiled"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>By the counsellor: Nevin Al-Farahta<\/p>\n<p>A spoiled child is one who wants to get everything and to own the world and all it holds, and if they do not get what they want, irritability takes hold of them and they become hard to deal with.<br \/>\nThere are many parents who believe that spoiling their child will not affect their behaviour and personality, but the truth is that excessive spoiling makes a child irritable and moody and disrespectful of others, so that they easily lose their temper if their demands are not met.<br \/>\nHere, mother, are some steps and ideas that can help you reduce the negative effects of spoiling in a child:<br \/>\nFirst: the mother and father should agree on a way of dealing with the child, not go back on the decisions they take with their spoiled child, and hold to them.<br \/>\nSecond: make your child realise that they have things other children like them do not have. For example, you can take them to the hospitals so that they know there are children their age who do not have the blessing of good health, and so they will realise the blessings others do not have.<br \/>\nThird: preserve your child's independence in what they do and encourage it according to their age. For example, encourage them to arrange their own clothes.<br \/>\nFourth: if your child loses their temper because they have not got something they want, never tell them you will bring it for them; they must know that if they carry on losing their temper and shouting and raging, they will lose something they love.<br \/>\nFifth: do not bribe your child, for example by giving them sweets or toys if they stop crying, because that will encourage them to carry on with their negative behaviour.<br \/>\nSixth: crying is natural in newborns, and it is natural in a child as they grow older, so do not try to calm them by giving them a toy, because that will make them continue their wrong behaviour.<br \/>\nFinally: if you are thinking about the right and best way to deal with a spoiled child, you must be calm and careful never to lose your temper however frustrating their behaviour, and teach them the importance of sharing by involving them in activities that encourage them to help others.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0628\u0642\u0644\u0645 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u0631\u0634\u062f\u0629 : \u0646\u0641\u064a\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0641\u0631\u0627\u062d\u062a\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0637\u0641\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0645\u062f\u0644\u0644 \u0647\u0648 \u0627\u0644\u0637\u0641\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0630\u064a \u064a\u0631\u064a\u062f \u0623\u0646 \u064a\u062d\u0635\u0644 \u0639\u0644\u0649 \u0643\u0644 \u0634\u064a \u0648\u0623\u0646 \u064a\u0645\u062a\u0644\u0643 \u0627\u0644\u062f\u0646\u064a\u0627 \u0648\u0645\u0627 \u0641\u064a\u0647\u0627 \u0648\u0625\u0630\u0627 \u0644\u0645 \u064a\u062d\u0635\u0644 \u0639\u0644\u064a \u0645\u0627 \u064a\u0631\u064a\u062f \u062a\u062a\u0645\u0644\u0643\u0647 \u0627\u0644\u0639\u0635\u0628\u064a\u0629 \u0648\u064a\u0635\u0639\u0628 \u0627\u0644\u062a\u0639\u0627\u0645\u0644 \u0645\u0639\u0647. \u0647\u0646\u0627\u0643 \u0627\u0644\u0643\u062b\u064a\u0631 \u0645\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u0623\u0647\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0630\u064a\u0646 \u064a\u0639\u062a\u0642\u062f\u0648\u0646 \u0628\u0623\u0646 \u062a\u062f\u0644\u064a\u0644\u0647\u0645 \u0644\u0637\u0641\u0644\u0647\u0645 \u0644\u0646 \u064a\u0648\u062b\u0631 \u0639\u0644\u064a \u0633\u0644\u0648\u0643\u0647 \u0648\u0634\u062e\u0635\u064a\u062a\u0647\u060c \u0648\u0644\u0643\u0646 \u062d\u0642\u064a\u0642\u0629 \u0627\u0644\u0623\u0645\u0631 \u0623\u0646 \u0627\u0644\u062a\u062f\u0644\u064a\u0644 \u0627\u0644\u0632\u0627\u0626\u062f \u0644\u0644\u0637\u0641\u0644 \u064a\u062c\u0639\u0644\u0647 \u0639\u0635\u0628\u064a [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2191,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2190","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-blog"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/pcdcr.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2190","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/pcdcr.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/pcdcr.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pcdcr.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pcdcr.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2190"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/pcdcr.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2190\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pcdcr.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2191"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/pcdcr.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2190"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pcdcr.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2190"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/pcdcr.org\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2190"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}